5/31/09

a kiss

A kiss is the most important tender entry on the amazing world of Erotica. Is the feeling and the expression of the kiss that edit our feelings as a message of love from one to the other. For me personaly is the number one contact of humans. A kiss transmit love , tender, feelings, emotions, desires....etc.
Kiss (erotic kiss) is the most delightfull that can fill hearts with joy and happiness. Love needs only love nothing else.
Kisses without love are just lustful empty contact with mouth liquids. lol.
Now we come in one more sensitive point, kiss among friends, is a kiss that can express hidden love and hidden erotic desires that may surprise even the kisser ( that did not ever realize that he/she loved that much a friend -he/she).
Pure love feelings among friends and lovers are the most precious gifts and hearts contacts.
Love and respect and kisses and erotic sences on the kisses among friends, (first you have to be a friend prior to proceed in love effections) are not wrong and not spoil friendship, even does not progress in love affair. That spoil love affairs are owning possesion feelings, jealousy, envy, missery in feelings, low selfestem and negativity. Kisses colour our feelings when we give them. When we give kisses from routine motives , these kisses are empty from love transmissions and they are meaningless. Kiss has to be a kiss and edited with emotions. Kisses mouth to mouth is erotica expression . With kisses unconsiously we evaluate our feelings among each other. We do preloude for hello, or prelude for sexual encounter, we do closing sexual encounter or we say goodnight or see you later...
Kiss when is a real kiss is the most important love transmission among friends and lovers.

5/27/09

what is that count in a erotica ?


What is that count in a Erotica? That counds in a such holy seremony, is the particiaption of both partners with spirit , soul and body at fool scale action. Does not mater what you will say or do, but how you will say it and how you will handle such a sensitive moment, because any negative of a coment or act, may harm feeling. I say that, because naked body is an open naked soul and mind. That means : women and men durring erotica are defendless and full unprotected. One moment of negative coment or insult, may last years to be heal or never.
Humor on sexual activity if it is honest and with gentle handle gives smiles and can give more happiness. Erotica moment is a holy ceremony between two human beings , because create unity and divine soul elevation. Some times a sexual activity for just lust pleasures ( just fuck for fun ) are also welcome even if it is not devine unity ( but there is a common free will without force among participants in a formation of 1 to 1 or group sex) but it is much better than any other brutal activity such as a killing or cause any other major harm by destroy or ruin lives financilay, or material property destruction or any insult or ruthless assalt. Do sex not a war.

Exotic Paradise give best ever Erotica moods

sleeping beauty

sex among females can give best pleasures


Sometimes sex among two females may give great pleasures on them , but even on those were they are watching. I find very sensual performance a sex among two females. Bisexauality of a woman is a vey attractive visual display for me. A wife has such a virtual addict is a gift and would be granted and appreciate in a maximum as a gift best ever.

Sex under the light of candles


There is not best ever sexual action, than under a tender lowlight atmosphere and sensitive music in background increasing erotic mood on a couple

5/14/09

Echoes in Eternity


I do not know well drawing in paper and doing art paints. but I know how to get pictures and create echoes in eternity

Venetian Custom cultural clothes

Venice 3

Taking pictures in Venice makes you feel an Erotica with eternity , capturing pictures of the time machine called Venice. Venice gives you that you walk through the time. Among today and then and seems to me that these photos are Echoes in Eternity.

Romance and Rality in Venice gives magic moments


Romance co-exist even with the every day life. A combination of Reality with Romance gives one sensual Erotica of ecstatic Feelings.
Erotica is not only sex. Erotica for me means being in Love with life and feel and taste each day, each hour, each moment , as the very last of your life. The secret of Happy Magical life is that I live and giving meaning every day on my life. Kicking away any negativity and feelings of misery . The best of life is enjoy simplicity of every day life, at the fullest, by editing this life with colours of happiness.

Venice 2

In Venice feeling Romance with people dressed like then in cultural ages of Renessance.

Venice is ambassador of Romance


Venice is the town, that when you do find yourself there, you feel the atmospher of Romance. It is one of most Romantic places for any season. The memories from Venice, never wipe out , but remains always like a beautiful dream. These photos are nothing , in compare to live and walk inside the town and the pictures are million in front of your unique eyes.
When I listen Venice , I listen Romance and Erotica. Erotica of sences, Erotica of imagination, of Erotica of the Colours and Erotica of experiences that got from there with several Ladies well known and ladies even for one night stud. Making you feel Casanova. Brings you back to Renesance and Romantic ages.

Venice 1

Erotica between Human and Art Culture.

Even Romantic artistic pictures is Erotica but with a unique way. Erotica between human and Cultural lifestyle of Art.

5/13/09

Love is a Moment that lasts forever

Romance and reality

Although in our everyday vocabulary, the term romance is almost exclusively used to describe sexual or emotional situations, in fact every man is romantic with strong imagination, heroism, adventurous mood, refusing to compromise, such passion for the mysterious and inaccessible or love for wandering and discovery.

Despite these differences in external features, however, the romantic people easily identifiable thanks to lonely, distant and fragile nature. Since the odds abhors the selfishness and wickedness of life, romance is the trend away from the lives of many and withdraws behind the differences between the monitor and to judge from the greater distance is, the world around him. Hidden and constant hope is that someday will be able to choose their own lifestyle that suits and freed from the shackles which sets the daily stupidity, cowardice and the malice of others.

Rarely, however, manages to make his dreams. Sooner or later life, luck or need a need to eliminate (or at least limit) the moat that separates it from the "vulgar, anerasto and humble" everyday world to fight on a track not selected, with opponents who not aware of and rules are constantly changing without notice.

For every man is a romantic struggle between the foot of reality and the desire for a life alliotiki the other is the crucial test of his life, and through this determine who ultimately wants to be, ask him what the world and what will strive to obtain. Usually, however, this test builds characters who can be classified into one (or more frequently) by the following categories:

1.

The cynical. It is those who (rightly or wrongly) the difficulty bending forward and completely rejected dreams and sensitivities. For them only "tangible" things like money and power are of value in this world and only crazy fool or whoever may be characterized dealing with anything else.
2.

The rebels. It is those who swore to never compromise and not fighting to change the world, regardless of the sacrifices (their own or any other time), confident that all dreams can be made exactly as envisioned, and assured the man that can fix alone, without any compromise, the fate of.
3.

The misanthrope (the whom hate people). Tough bitter are those people around them because they proved less of dreams and expectations. Hate the world because there was never anyone to understand them, or (usually) because there was never anything so large and valuable to them to deserve the attention, interest and love of others.
4.

The hermits. It is those who are tired of fighting and withdraw on the sidelines of life. Too weak to continue the battle, but still faithful to the visions and aspirations, living in a corner, waiting and expecpting throughout into their lives the miracle that will give shape to what dream or moaning because fate brought them much less than we asked.
5.

The irremediableness. It is those who continue to search for people, places or situations that have plasma or imagination sure that somewhere there will be some time disclosed. Unable to accept (and love) the "foot" reality, the unreality irremediableness looking to spend their lives waiting to appear before them as vivid as they want, but dare not or can not create themselves.
6.

The courageous. It is those who see the flaws, fears and stupidity of others, but still manage to love, to respect and where appropriate to the marvel. They know the ugliness, the injustice and the difficulties of life, but the war (more or less generous) and have the courage to believe that our world is so rich, beautiful and precious that deserves to live and fight for him (and within him) and they often hurts.

Of all the romantic characters, the courageous people who have chosen the most difficult task. We are fighting (not to be discouraged by the difficulty), prudent (to avoid unnecessary battles and minor), skilful (to prevail in most games), enthusiastic (not to afraid to try something new), sensor ( to discover the beauty of the world around them as though they are deeply hidden) and soulful (to love you, punish rarely, and not hate any).

Once the difficulties of such a life are so many, the reward for those who choose can be similar. The bold is the only man who can truly love and a love that is real and not one created by the imagination (which some will be shown below it). It is also the only one who can enjoy life in all its glory and has a rare ability to discover the beautiful side to the other things (routine or package lost in the dreams) to pass by without giving them importance.

The major advantage however is that a courageous almost always wins the love and appreciation of others because he knows that most people are always willing to reciprocate the respect and love them. Thus, care is not in never sparing feelings and attempts, as permitted by its forces, to always give more than you ask them about it.

This practice is not optimistic always bring the desired result. The courageous but knows how to enjoy success and have learned to withstand the wounds that caused the evil, the fears and mistakes of others. Do not ask, however, how he manages. This is an answer that everyone needs to find for himself and I for one am still searching.

Ρομαντισμός και πραγματικότητα

Αν και στο καθημερινό μας λεξιλόγιο ο όρος ρομαντισμός χρησιμοποιείται σχεδόν αποκλειστικά για να περιγράψει ερωτικές ή συναισθηματικές καταστάσεις, στην πραγματικότητα ρομαντικός είναι κάθε άνθρωπος με ισχυρή φαντασία, ηρωισμό, περιπετειώδη διάθεση, άρνηση συμβιβασμού με την καθημερινότητα, πάθος για το μυστηριώδες ή το απροσπέλαστο και αγάπη για την περιπλάνηση και τις ανακαλύψεις.

Παρ' όλες αυτές τις διαφορές στα εξωτερικά τους γνωρίσματα όμως, οι ρομαντικοί άνθρωποι αναγνωρίζονται εύκολα χάρη στη μοναχική, απόμακρη και ευαίσθητη φύση τους. Επειδή αποστρέφεται τις ασημαντότητες, τους εγωισμούς και τις κακίες της καθημερινότητας, ο ρομαντικός έχει την τάση να απομακρύνεται από τη ζωή των πολλών και οχυρωμένος πίσω από τη διαφορετικότητά του να παρακολουθεί και να κρίνει, από όσο μεγαλύτερη απόσταση γίνεται, τον κόσμο γύρω του. Κρυφή και μόνιμη ελπίδα του είναι ότι κάποτε θα καταφέρει να επιλέξει ο ίδιος τον τρόπο ζωής που του ταιριάζει και να ελευθερωθεί από τα δεσμά που του θέτει καθημερινά η ανοησία, η δειλία και η μοχθηρία των άλλων.

Σπάνια όμως καταφέρνει να πραγματοποιήσει τα όνειρά του. Αργά ή γρήγορα η ζωή, η τύχη ή η ανάγκη τον υποχρεώνουν να εξαλείψει (ή τουλάχιστον να περιορίσει) την τάφρο που τον χωρίζει από τον "χυδαίο, ανέραστο και ταπεινό" καθημερινό κόσμο για να αγωνιστεί σε ένα στίβο που δεν επέλεξε, με αντιπάλους που δεν γνωρίζει και με κανόνες που αλλάζουν συνεχώς χωρίς καμία προειδοποίηση.

Για κάθε ρομαντικό άνθρωπο αυτή η πάλη μεταξύ της πεζής πραγματικότητας και της επιθυμίας του για μια ζωή αλλιώτικη από τις άλλες αποτελεί την κρισιμότερη δοκιμασία της ζωής του, καθώς μέσα από αυτήν καθορίζει ποιος τελικά θέλει να είναι, τι ζητάει από αυτόν τον κόσμο και με ποιο τρόπο θα αγωνιστεί για να το αποκτήσει. Συνήθως πάντως αυτή η δοκιμασία οικοδομεί χαρακτήρες οι οποίοι μπορούν να καταταχθούν σε μια (ή συχνότερα σε περισσότερες) από τις ακόλουθες κατηγορίες:

  1. Οι κυνικοί. Είναι εκείνοι που (δίκαια ή άδικα) λύγισαν μπροστά στις δυσκολίες και απαρνήθηκαν ολοκληρωτικά τα όνειρα και τις ευαισθησίες τους. Γι' αυτούς μόνο "χειροπιαστά" πράγματα όπως το χρήμα και η εξουσία έχουν αξία σ' αυτόν τον κόσμο και μόνο τρελός ή ανόητος μπορεί να χαρακτηριστεί όποιος ασχολείται με οτιδήποτε άλλο.

  2. Οι επαναστάτες. Είναι εκείνοι που ορκίστηκαν να μη συμβιβαστούν ποτέ και αγωνίζονται να αλλάξουν τον κόσμο, αδιαφορώντας για τις θυσίες (δικές τους ή καμιά φορά και των άλλων), σίγουροι ότι όλα τα όνειρα μπορούν να πραγματοποιηθούν ακριβώς όπως τα οραματίστηκαν και βέβαιοι ότι ο άνθρωπος μπορεί να ορίσει μόνος, χωρίς κανένα συμβιβασμό, τη μοίρα του.

  3. Οι μισάνθρωποι. Είναι εκείνοι που εχθρεύονται τους ανθρώπους γύρω τους γιατί αποδείχθηκαν κατώτεροι των ονείρων και των προσδοκιών τους. Μισούν τον κόσμο είτε γιατί δεν βρέθηκε ποτέ κανείς για να τους καταλάβει, είτε (συνηθέστερα) γιατί δεν υπήρξε ποτέ τίποτε τόσο μεγάλο και αξιόλογο σ' αυτούς ώστε να αξίζει της προσοχής, του ενδιαφέροντος και της αγάπης των άλλων.

  4. Οι ερημίτες. Είναι εκείνοι που κουράστηκαν να αγωνίζονται και αποτραβήχτηκαν στο περιθώριο της ζωής. Πολύ αδύναμοι για να συνεχίσουν τη μάχη, αλλά ακόμη πιστοί στα οράματα και τις προσδοκίες τους, μένουν στη γωνία, προσμένοντας για όλη τους τη ζωή το θαύμα που θα δώσει σάρκα και οστά σε όσα ονειρεύονται ή θρηνώντας γιατί η μοίρα τούς προσέφερε πολύ λιγότερα απ' όσα της ζήτησαν.

  5. Οι αθεράπευτοι. Είναι εκείνοι που συνεχίζουν να ψάχνουν για τους ανθρώπους, τους τόπους ή τις καταστάσεις που έχει πλάσει η φαντασία τους σίγουροι ότι κάπου υπάρχουν και κάποια στιγμή θα τους φανερωθούν. Ανίκανοι να αποδεχθούν (και να αγαπήσουν) την "πεζή" πραγματικότητα, οι αθεράπευτοι αναζητούν το ανύπαρκτο και περνούν τη ζωή τους, περιμένοντας να παρουσιαστεί ολοζώντανο μπροστά τους εκείνο που θέλουν, αλλά δεν τολμούν ή δεν μπορούν να δημιουργήσουν μόνοι τους.

  6. Οι θαρραλέοι. Είναι εκείνοι που βλέπουν τα ελαττώματα, τους φόβους και την ανοησία των άλλων, αλλά καταφέρνουν παρόλα αυτά να τους αγαπούν, να τους σέβονται και, όταν πρέπει, να τους θαυμάζουν. Γνωρίζουν την ασχήμια, την αδικία και τις δυσκολίες της ζωής, αλλά τις πολεμούν (λιγότερο ή περισσότερο γενναία) και έχουν το θάρρος να πιστεύουν ότι ο κόσμος μας είναι τόσο πλούσιος, όμορφος και πολύτιμος ώστε αξίζει να ζεις και να αγωνίζεσαι γι' αυτόν (και μέσα σ' αυτόν) όσο συχνά κι αν σε πληγώνει.

Απ' όλους τους ρομαντικούς χαρακτήρες, οι θαρραλέοι εκείνοι που έχουν επιλέξει το δυσκολότερο έργο. Πρέπει να είναι μαχητικοί (για να μην αποθαρρύνονται από τις δυσκολίες), συνετοί (για να αποφεύγουν τις άσκοπες και ασήμαντες μάχες), επιδέξιοι (για να επικρατούν στους περισσότερους αγώνες), ενθουσιώδεις (για να μη φοβούνται να δοκιμάσουν κάτι καινούριο), ευαίσθητοι (για να ανακαλύπτουν την ομορφιά του κόσμου γύρω τους όσο βαθιά κι αν είναι κρυμμένη) και καλόψυχοι (για να αγαπούν πολύ, να τιμωρούν σπάνια και να μη μισούν καθόλου).

Αφού λοιπόν οι δυσκολίες μιας τέτοιας ζωής είναι τόσες πολλές, η ανταμοιβή για όσους την επιλέγουν δεν μπορεί παρά να είναι ανάλογη. Ο θαρραλέος είναι ο μόνος άνθρωπος που μπορεί να ερωτευτεί αληθινά μια και αγαπάει αυτό που υπάρχει πραγματικά και όχι εκείνο που έπλασε με τη φαντασία του (και το οποίο κάποτε θα αποδειχθεί κατώτερό της). Είναι επίσης ο μόνος που μπορεί να απολαύσει τη ζωή σε όλο της το μεγαλείο μια και διαθέτει τη σπάνια ικανότητα να ανακαλύπτει τις όμορφες πλευρές πραγμάτων που οι άλλοι (δέσμιοι της καθημερινότητας ή χαμένοι μέσα στα όνειρά τους) προσπερνούν χωρίς να τους δίνουν σημασία.

Το σημαντικότερο όμως πλεονέκτημα ενός θαρραλέου είναι ότι σχεδόν πάντα κερδίζει την αγάπη και την εκτίμηση των άλλων επειδή γνωρίζει ότι οι περισσότεροι άνθρωποι είναι πάντα πρόθυμοι να ανταποδώσουν το σεβασμό και την αγάπη που τους προσφέρουν. Έτσι, φροντίζει να μην είναι ποτέ φειδωλός στα αισθήματά του και προσπαθεί, όσο του επιτρέπουν οι δυνάμεις του, να δίνει πάντοτε περισσότερα απ' όσα ζητά από τους γύρω του.

Αυτή η αισιόδοξη πρακτική βέβαια δεν φέρνει πάντα το επιθυμητό αποτέλεσμα. Ο θαρραλέος όμως ξέρει να απολαμβάνει τις επιτυχίες της και έχει μάθει να αντέχει στις πληγές που του προξενούν η κακία, οι φοβίες και τα σφάλματα των άλλων. Μην με ρωτήσετε πάντως πώς τα καταφέρνει. Αυτή είναι μια απάντηση που ο καθένας πρέπει να βρει για τον εαυτό και εγώ τουλάχιστον βρίσκομαι ακόμη στο ψάξιμο.

Romantic ideas using food








Have a plate engraved with a message for the one you love without them knowing about it. When you take them out to dinner, ask the waiter to serve their meal on that plate.

Wrap up a small gift for your sweetheart and put it in his/her favorite box of cereal.

Call a restaurant where your love lives and have them deliver a nice meal to him/her.

Surprise your sweetheart one day when he/she expects you to be at work with a picnic lunch at a local park.

Make your love breakfast in bed and serve it with a rose, a love poem and a sweet kiss.
You can make it extra special by feeding it to him/her.

Cook dinner in your fireplace. Eat and enjoy the evening in front of it with no distractions other than a sweet romantic music playing in the background.

Make some heart shaped sugar cookies and decorate them. Then leave them on your sweetheart’s passenger seat in their car, so they go to work knowing how much they are loved.

Go to the beach and bring a blanket and a radio. Sit on the blanket while feeding each other chocolates or fruits, with some soft music playing. Then tell your mate how you feel about them, while holding hands and walking in the sand.



Are you afraid the words?
















- Are you afraid the words?
-No, I do not affraid of the words. I am affraid of the people saying easyly words with deep meanings such as : I love you.
They make me doubt sometimes about their true emotional stability and their true feelings. Thanks God most of theses people are humans with wide open hearts and they are saying directly whatever they do feel and think. But also I have met some people , that they are hiding behind their true face behind masks and having unkind feelings and unkind purpuses.

Candles gives romantic craft















Low lights of candles gives a Romantic craft (magic) to human senses and Erotica mood

Erotica is sexual expression act
















Erotica is a sexual expression act. This expression has to be in a triple formation:
1/ Eterosexual - straight sexual orientation ( men to woman vise versa)
2/ Bisexual orientations ( men to men and woman , woman with woman and men)
3/ Homoseual orientation (men to men strictly or woman to woman stictly)

Now each human has personal preferances and be respected for that, even if we may disagree with that orientations. People should not be judged for their sexual orientations.
I am straight male in my sexual orientation and nobody have to insult me for what I am. Also myself should not be fall in pre-judge sexual harashment for other men or woman for their sexual orientation.

When humans we have Love , respect and understanding and compassion and we realize that we are not perfect, that will make earth like Paradise. When we love someone we do not do anything to cause a harm and pain and harash him/her emotionaly and spiritualy. But for this , we need to love ourselves.
For example: If I do not love myself first, is impossible to love others.
If I do not respect myself and doing improper actions, by insult, harrash, and missbehave, how I am expect others to respect me? But the first step is to atract respect of others with aristocracy behave. Aristocracy is not a social status, but virtual spiritual element and it means in ancient Greek language : the whom keeps self ariston ( gentle behave) level of spirit and in behave.
There is not exist Dirty sex , exist Dirty mind. There are not exist dirty words, we create them bad or nasty allong with our spiritual dirty mind of ours.
When a couple (men and woman or men and men or woman and woman) wants something to do in common equall acceptance , there is nothing wrong and it is according to their level of privacy.
No one else has to know or to involve and judge their desires and their sexual attitude as a couple. Now most of people doing sex with high emotions (love and respect) others just doing it.
It is also accepted enough being under wellfare behave and humatarian respect.
Erotica (sex) is unlimited because nobody can inprison imagination and fantasy.
Erotica can be elevated high spiritual contact (soul, mind and body) or just a flesh pleasures without high emotions. But certainly life without (Erotica) sex can create a very violent world.
When in the years 600 a.D to 1900 a.D sexual puritanism was strictly forbit a sexual pleasures, world was full of wars and violence. When childerns of flowers tried to bring this liberal revolution, puritans tried hardly to spoil them and lebel them with rumors and charges such as narcotics and variety of extremeties and rape their spiritual revolution.
Some hidden powers trying to enslave people being slaves and move like robots without free will without pleasures. Sex (Erotica) is damned from many politicians and political systems , as something unclean. Even today remains a very sensitive subject tos discuss .
Of course exist some people that talks and act Erotica free and get a lebel of non Ethic person or too liberal .
My personal opinion is better an sexual liberation among adult men and women in any sexual orientation formations, than a blood thirst violent wars that brings mysery and evil.
Now Erotica for me has a certain limitation . For example brutal rapes from anyone to anybody are not Erotica but it is high crime activity and insult God and Erotica (sex) it is Devil act. Also criminal act is when adults abuse and rape not adult humans. Criminal action is when men imprison women and push them violently doing prostitution against their will as sex slaves.
These crimes should be punish with a highest penalty of all. What is that penalty? I am not a judge, a prime courts of justice should decide that sentences.
Erotica when has not criminal actions and it is include acceptance of participants even if it is a group sex (of many men and women) it is Erotica. When sexual abuses violetes basic human rights, it is a high crime against person , against erotica against universal God.
That is my very personal opinion. Some of you may agree or disagree with my points of view.

Symbol of pure love and innocence

Prelude to Erotica


My dear reader of my blog
Certainly everybody knows that this Erotica needs two persons minimum willing to play the game. No force , no pushing. When one of the two does not accept participation, do not work out. Erotica is free spirit and free will from adults males and females.
Also need the mood and the open mind to accept some levels of itimate moments.
When men and woman does sex have to be both accept the level of itimacy that will be willing to do and specify what is that ,they do not wish to perform. Each human has some limitations. All these must be respected by others. Erotica is pleasure and has not to be a torture or nightmare.
Always a prelude or pre-entries are necessary to create the atmosphere and the mood.
These are a certain drink or food . For example a champagne or wine can help to relax erotica participants .
Food sometimes helps the erotica atmosphere. For example seafood called aphrodisiac essance food.
Also the enviroment may help to relax particiapnts, for example soft music and low light from candles.
A very good prelode to erotica is the bath (bable bath with aromatherapy oils and soaps.Also is a level of purification and cleansing.
A massage helps relaxation of erotica particiapants with essential oils.
But most of all needs feelings such as : Love and respect and tender feelings.
Erotica Is something similar with eating food. You eat just to fill your stomach or you do it for satisfy your body totaly? You may eat a food with no special taste and you will forget it after or you eat a food with reach taste and you remember it forever. The feelings are the salt and spices that gives the precius taste.
Erotica is also Chemistry of taste and feelings. Erotica is Magical if it is sensual.